Find Your Own Hidden Dynamics
It can be hard to find our own hidden dynamics because we are so close to what is going on that what is happening might not be visible to us. There are many ways to do this. Today I am going to describe one way to find a hidden dynamic that could be affecting your relationship with your horse. To begin with you need to notice that you are in a place where there is a pot of gold to be found. If you can think of a recurring issue with your horse that continues to happen despite your efforts to change it, you are at a good starting spot. Otherwise, think of any negative patterns that you can define or any feelings that happen on a regular basis with your horse that you would rather not experience. Any of these things are a sign to go digging for what is underneath. Then you need to become aware, to notice what is going on. What is the situation, your thoughts and feelings as the situation occurs, what is your response, and what are your thoughts and feelings as you respond in the way...
